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The Decision Maker App for Couples

Random choices for food, dates, films, and nights out.

What's our date night?

Picking from 20 ideas

Let DITHER decide

DITHER is the couple decision maker for every “you pick… no, you pick” moment. It's the app for couples who can't decide, a random date night decision maker and a fair decision maker for couples, all in one.

Spin the Date Night wheel for 20 ideas — cosy nights in, dinners out, films and adventures — or narrow it down to stay in, go out, dinner, cosy or free.

Still can't agree? Play This or That, or start a two-person vote and let DITHER break the tie. No more arguments — just tap and go.

Dinner for twoWhat shall we eat?Film nightWhat shall we watch?Night outWhere are we going?Date night ideasMore picks for two.This or That for twoTwo options. One winner.Settle it togetherBoth vote — DITHER breaks ties.

FAQ

What is a couple decision maker?

An app that picks for you both — dinner, a film, a date or a night out — so nobody has to be the one who decides.

We can never decide on date night. Can DITHER help?

Yes. Tap Spin for date night and DITHER picks from 20 date ideas, filtered by mood or budget if you like.

Is it fair to both of us?

Every option has an equal chance, so nobody can say the other one always gets their way.

Is it free?

Yes. DITHER is free to use, with no sign-up or download needed.